Friendship is one of the most sacred human relationships. Ideally, it’s rooted in love, trust, and mutual support. However, when the concept of success gets involved, these pure feelings can get tainted, turning friends into gatekeepers instead of champions. The Gatekeeping Phenomenon: An Introduction Gatekeeping is the act of controlling access to something. When friends […]
Continue ReadingThroughout history, human progress has been shaped by our reactions to social influences. However, when these influences push individuals towards accepting failure due to others’ insecurities or fears, they can act as barriers rather than catalysts. This article delves deeper into the scientific, psychological, and anthropological aspects of these influences and their implications. 1. The […]
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By: Dr. Leo “Stix” Croft The term “love bombing” initially emerged within the contexts of manipulative relationships and cult behaviors. It pertains to the act of overwhelming an individual with excessive affection, praise, and attention to exert control or significantly influence their actions. When such a tactic finds its way into the mother-son dynamic, concerns […]
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-By Dr. Leo “Stix” Croft We’ve all heard the saying, “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.” While it’s true that people often imitate those they admire, this isn’t always the case. In fact, constant imitation can be concerning, especially when it feels like someone is copying every aspect of your life—even on social media. […]
Continue ReadingIn the realm of parenting and discipline, the debate around the use of spanking and its repercussions has never really simmered down. For many, a quick swat or two is seen as a straightforward corrective measure. However, a deeper dive into the psychological underpinnings and long-term impacts suggests there’s much more to the story. Spanking […]
Continue ReadingFeeling overlooked and undervalued in interpersonal relationships, be it in a professional or personal context, can have profound psychological implications. Being surrounded by individuals who do not take you seriously can erode self-worth, induce chronic stress, and lead to feelings of isolation. It’s essential to identify these strains and take strategic steps to ensure one’s […]
Continue ReadingBy Dr. Leo “Stix” Croft Trust, whether in professional relationships or personal bonds, is often likened to a delicate crystal. Once fractured, it requires immense care and intention to piece it back together. While the operational consequences of broken trust in business are evident, the psychological aftermath, especially in personal settings, can be even more […]
Continue ReadingPassion or Obsession: A Test of True Purpose Since the pandemic, there has been a surge of individuals declaring their newfound passions. Being confined to our homes for two years was bound to spark this creative awakening. However, amidst the rise of passions, there is a pressing question: Are we truly passionate about these pursuits, […]
Continue ReadingIn every relationship, whether romantic, familial, or platonic, individuals bring a unique mix of experiences, baggage, and perspectives. This dynamic can sometimes be complicated, and as such, many people defend certain behaviors by saying, “I come with a lot.” While it’s essential to recognize and understand personal challenges, using them as an excuse to avoid […]
Continue ReadingWhen I think about the narratives that surround black men in America, two terms often arise: “keeping it real” and “authenticity.” While at a glance, they may appear synonymous, I argue that these are two vastly different concepts, and it’s high time we separate the two for the betterment of our collective well-being. To understand […]
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